and the salvation army fed us and they gave us water and they never asked us if we were lesbians which was pretty obvious because we were. >> stephanie: you're one of those obvious lesbians, are you? >> yes we're obvious lesbians because we were doing all of the work ourselves. >> stephanie: you were doing all of the manual labor. >> yeah. i've heard all of the stuff about salvation army. i'm glad you asked him those questions because that settles my heart a bit but i give to the salvation army every year because i was a recipient of their kindness. nobody asked me my sexual orientation. they fed us and took care of us. >> stephanie: your settled heart was in a big plaid obvious lesbian costume i'm guessing. >> actually, i do have -- it is funny. i do have plaid. >> stephanie: i don't know where i got that from. >> the salvation army's main thing is they don't discriminate when it comes to helping people in need. they help whoever needs it. >> right. whenever we clean our closets out or whenever we need to clean our house out we always send our stuff to the salvation army in particular